Tips When Contacting The Women

 

 

**Please wait at least one week for the ladies to contact you when you email them. People here are not as 'wired' as people back in the United States, Canada and Europe and they do not check their email as often. Some may not check for a week or more due to not having a computer at home. They do not have tablets, lap tops and smart phones like you guys do so have some patience. Let us know when any emails are returned as 'account no longer in service and we will replace the contact with a new one free of charge.

We are also finding out that some of the women are using Facebook for email communications now and are abandoning or checking less frequently their normal email so have some patience. Try to call them if they do not respond after 7-10 days.

Phone numbers that are turned off or no longer owned by the contact will be replaced by another lady of your choice free of charge. Almost all phones here are pre-paid and the ladies change numbers sometime, share phones with others, etc. Its a part of the business we cannot control so we give you our guarantee that if the contact information is not current we will give you more contacts till you get what we promised.

 

 

Dating Latin women is not complicated. They want to do the 'female' chores and let you be a man. Please remember to send photos of yourself and have patience as most Dominican ladies do not have a computer at home and may go a week or more without checking her email. Some will not be interested in you or might be away visiting family elsewhere. The possibilities are endless so send out emails to several ladies and make several calls and you will have better success. Feel free to write more about yourself in your emails but make sure you use a translator before you send them out.

If the lady you are communicating with is not from the Sosua, Dominican Republic area (most are not) it may be a good idea not to bring the topic of Sosua up. There are some people in the DR that consider Sosua a trashy place and Sosua women dirty. One area of Sosua can be considered a semi red light district but it is mostly a beautiful town with a great infrastructure. This a poor country and people wait years for a job that pays less than $300 a month so there certainly are women who come here looking for men to help them out financially. Its not like they can go down to the local Wal-Mart and get a job paying $8 an hour. They would fight for that opportunity if it existed.

 

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Calling and Emailing Tips

 

Call her: If your Spanish is not good, talking on the phone can be a challenge. Latin females are very eager to meet foreign men and are more patient than women you are probably used to. You will learn that there are plenty of Dominican women seeking men and you are outnumbered and in demand. You may want to start with an email or have a person you know that understands Spanish translate for you on your first call. This is not necessary, its up to you.

When phoning, try several times as the phone service here is not always good and there are an ‘above average’ number of cell phone ‘dead spots’ in the DR. You can leave a voice message but it is a good chance she will never hear it as Dominicans do not use voice mail often for some unknown reason. They do text message. Make sure you use Google translate or Babel fish or some other good translation program. Do not send the message in English. When they return a call they often ring once or twice and hang up so you can call them back. If they wait for you to answer they will probably ask you to call them back and a ring or two means the same thing. We recommend getting some discount phone calling cards to save on the toll. They are very cheap these days.

Email her: When sending email use a translator like Google translate or Babel fish before you send it. Make sure your spelling and grammar is good to get best translations to Spanish. Attach some pics of yourself before sending and note in the letter that you have sent pics so she knows to look for an attachment file. Once again, have patience as the average Dominican lady does not have a computer at home and does not check her email as often as you do. If you also have her phone number, it's a good idea to send an email before you call her. Give it a few days before you call. Do still call her if she does not answer your email. We know to do this from experience.

Talk about what you like to do in your free time, what you don't like to do. There are no standard rules when using a Latin women dating service. Ask her about her family and she will light up. Family is still a very important thing in most people's lives here. Dominican ladies are the heart and soul of their family and this is the type of thing you may want to ask her or other similar questions to see what she is looking for in a relationship.

There are several great translators that are all free. There is Spanishdict which specializes in Spanish and has a built in dictionary and thesaurus. It can also give you Spanish lessons with its many powerful features. Cut and paste makes the whole process pretty simple. Remember to us the best English you can and to spell check it before you click send.

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Here is a sample email you can send as a first contact to a lady that also has provided her phone number. This is just a sample, you are free to write anything you want.

 

Hello Maria,

My name is Steven and I got your email address online from a computer social network agency. (no need to mention our site or any other website as some of the girls are on more than one site)

I liked your profile and photos and would like to get to know you better. I am sending some photos of myself for you to see.

I will give you a call soon and I hope all is well in your life.

Kisses,
Steven

 

This is the translation of the above letter. You can cut and paste it for use but remember to change the names to hers and yours.

 

 

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Here is a sample email you can send as a first contact to a lady that has provided her email address only. This is just a sample, you are free to write anything you want.

Hello Maria,


My name is Steven and I got your email address online from a computer social network agency. (no need to mention our site or any other website as some of the girls are on more than one site)

I liked your profile and photos and would like to get to know you better. I am sending some photos of myself for you to see.

Please write me back or call me at 123-123-1234 if you want to know more about me. If you write please include your telephone number and I will call you. I hope to hear from you.

Kisses,
Steven

 

This is the translation of the above letter. You can cut and paste it for use but remember to change the names to hers and yours.

 

 

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Feel free to use any of the contacting tips above or come up with some creative ideas yourself!

 

==DO NOT SEND MONEY TO ANY LADY THAT YOU HAVE NEVER MET IN PERSON==

 

 

 

Meeting in person for the first time

 

 

 
Let Someone Back Home Know Your Whereabouts

Tell someone and email them where you will be staying. Emailing them is good just in case they do not write it down and it reduces the chances of wrong phone numbers being copied down. Plus they cannot lose the information unless they delete it. This of course should be a reliable person. Send them the name, phone number and email of the lady you are visiting too.

 

Book a Hotel Room

The first time you visit your lady do not plan to stay with her or anyone she recommends. If it is the first time you have been in that country you will know nothing of how things work or where anything is. If you don’t have the bucks for a room you should not be going in the first place.  Think smart and safety, even a small, pretty lady can set you up.

 

Hire a Car Service From the Airport

If she wants to meet you at the airport then you can be a target. Do not get into a private car or vehicle of any kind at the airport. Make sure the cab you get into is marked and on a cab line as airports everywhere have rules as to which cabs are allowed to pick up people. Her wanting to meet you when you arrive is sweet but safety first my man. She can meet you at the airport but do not get into a private vehicle this early on.

 

Plan Ahead

Find out a bit about the country you are going to. Do searches on the city you are going to and check out maps of the area. Do not wear expensive jewelry or clothing. Do not flash money or phone, cameras, etc. When you get there do not change money at the airport if you don’t have to. The US dollar is accepted by taxis at almost every airport in the world but make sure anyway and find out how much the trip to your hotel is before agreeing to ride. If for some reason you have to change money at the airport, change just what you will need for that day.  Airports are notorious for giving you the worst exchange rates. Your hotel will give you a better rate or tell you where to go.